Dating in Your 30s
Dating in your 30s might not sound like as much fun as it did in your 20s, but it certainly doesn’t have to be a chore. Having survived the immature sagas of youth, you’re ready to hit your stride, relationship-wise. Here’s a short guide to dating after your 30th birthday.
Dating in Your 30s: The Single Life
This is the decade in which to thrive. You’re likely to have a better perspective of dating than you did in your infatuated teen years. In your thirties, you’re cultivating friendships, passions, and a career. Dating is a part of life, but it isn’t everything.
Know what you want; not just from a relationship, but from life. You can’t control every circumstance surrounding “meeting the one,” but you can control how you spend your time. Live life to the fullest and pursue the kind of life you want to be living. Bonus: a happy, confident, fulfilled individual is an attractive one.
You’re 30, not dead. Have fun.
Dating in Your 30s: Get Out There
If you thought meeting people was tough in your 20s, you’re likely to find dating after 30 to be even trickier. The proverbial pool has shrunk, with more of your peers in long-term relationships or marriages, and with your social circle feeling smaller. (You probably don’t attend a weekly pub night with your sorority sisters anymore.)
With fewer fish to choose from — and likely a busier schedule that keeps you from leisurely bumping into Mrs. or Mr. Right — now is a good time to give online dating a shot. Matchmaking sites can let you be specific about who you’re looking for and what kind of relationship you’re seeking. Be intentional, then dive in.
Dating in Your 30s: The Ticking Clock
Throw out the timeline. Say goodbye to the rules, the formulas and the ticking clocks. It’s okay to desire marriage and a family, but you can’t go on a date accessorized with the desperate pressure to settle down.
More important than getting married or raising children is being with the right person. Don’t settle for Mr. Right Now, and don’t scare off a great gal with your impatience. Just because your friends are at a different life stage doesn’t mean that you’re running to catch up. Enjoy each moment as it comes.
Learn to communicate your values and dreams without bitterness or urgency. The right relationship is worth waiting for.
Dating in Your 30s: The Good Stuff
Dating in your 30s is dating at its best. With age comes wisdom; you’ve learned from past mistakes and now know what you need in a relationship and what you have to offer. You’re aware of your strengths and weaknesses, as will your date be aware of his/hers.
Unlike your earlier dating adventures, you’re finally stable financially (maybe), you’re ready for serious commitment, and you’ve discovered that singleness is nothing to be scared of. And by pursuing a relationship more intentionally and with more maturity, your odds of finding lasting love are actually higher.
Besides, in your 30s you have more stories to tell. If you’re a woman, you’re also now at your sexual peak. Your 20s were overrated.
Dating in Your 30s: The Challenges
Check your cynicism at the door. Just because you’ve survived heartache to get here doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust the next person to come around. Learn to give each new date a fair shot, not holding them accountable for the sins of those who’ve gone before.
Be open-minded. Date someone who isn’t your type, try an activity outside of your comfort zone, and challenge yourself to address the stuck-in-your-ways habits that could keep others at arm’s length.
Kids start complicating things in your 30s. Either you have them, want them, can’t have them, or don’t want them: all of these scenarios can result in awkward conversations. Be honest from the get-go. If you have kids, they need to be a huge consideration in your dating life. If you don’t yet have kids, evaluate whether or not the desire to eventually procreate is a deal-breaker. If your date hates children and you want six of them, the relationship has little long-term potential.
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Just as life didn’t end when you turned 30, it won’t end at 40 or 50 either. Single or with someone, life keeps getting better for those who embrace the adventure. Don’t let your relationship status limit your life, or your age limit your relationships.
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Birthday Gifts for Him in His 30s
by Becca
Birthdays are such a special time of the year, no matter how old you get! We LOVE to spoil our men but sometimes finding the PERFECT gift can be a challenge! Julie and I gathered up twenty of our favorite gift ideas to make this…
Birthday Gift Guide for your Favorite Guy!
And we are SURE you are going to find some fantastic ideas for your man’s next birthday!
1. Video Camera Sunglasses - How cool is THIS? A unique wearable camcorder and polarized sunglass combination. Hidden in the frame of the sunglasses is a 3 megapixel videocamera that can record 2 to 3 hours of action. To view your footage, just plug it into a computer with a USB! AND they are water and sweat resistant so your man can capture his next hunting adventure or extreme sport trick - hands free!
2. Kodak EasyShare Sport Waterproof Digital Camera - Does your man love the great outdoors? Let him capture his explorations without worrying about dirt, dust, water, or sand. Whether it’s a downpour on the hiking trail or a dunk in the pool, this Sport Camera lets your take your best shot - up to 10 ft. underwater. And with Kodak’s Share button, you can tag pictures directly from your camera for e-mailing to friends or uploading to popular social networking sites.
3. Create Your Own Storybook - Looking for something a little more sentimental? With this program you can re-tell your own love story in the form of a customized book and dedicate it to your Prince Charming. The site provides a variety of artist’s illustrations which you personally select, put in order and add your own text. What a great way to show your love – in a gift they will always treasure!
4. Personalized Golf Towel from York Photo - Looking for the perfect gift for your golfer? At York Photo, you can upload your own photo to go on a customized golf towel, just for him! (And who says it has to be used for golfing? We think it’d also make a great gym towel for your workout guru!)
5. A Creative Gift - This next gift idea is super inexpensive, super meaningful, and keeps giving all year long! Yeah, you can’t beat that! Let him know you want him to… “Have a happy day my dear, EVERY day for the entire year!”
6. DC Comics Superman Character Apron - Is your man a kid at heart? Does he love cookin’ it up in the kitchen or on the grill? Then surprise him with this totally fun character apron and let him know he is still your Superman!
7. Golfers Gag Wacky Tricks Golf Ball Jokes Set - Is your man a prankster? Then he’s sure to love the world’s best golf ball gags! With The Exploder, The Phantom, The Jet-Streamer, and The Unputtaball - he’s sure to have some fun on the back nine.
8. Accoutrements Horse Head Mask - Speaking of pranksters… I about died when I saw this hilarious horse head mask Julie found. Now THIS is the ultimate gag gift. With 1,077 (extremely amusing) customer reviews - it has a 4.6 rating out of 5 stars! If your guy has a serious sense of humor, (and you can totally picture him sitting on the front porch wearing this crazy mask and waving at all the neighhhh-bors) then run and check it out. Hehe.
9. The All About YOU Basket - You can’t go wrong with this gift basket! It is one of our most popular and pinned posts, and for good reason! You can get creative and customize it however you like to make sure it is a basket all about HIM! And I just love the way Lisa incorporated her “101 Reasons Why I Love You” into the gifts she chose to put inside!
10. Smart Control Ferrari Enzo - This one is just fun! Did you know your man can turn his iPhone, iPod touch, or iPad into the controller for this remote control car. If buying your honey his dream car is just not an option anytime in the foreseeable future - this might be another fun option. (And if you REALLY want to make his day, see if you can rent the real deal to drive for the day.)
11. Roku 3 Streaming Player - Have you heard of Roku? Basically, it’s a simple way to get broadband televison into any living room. It has over 750 channels and over 150,000 movies and TV shows from Netflix, Amazon Instant Videos, Hulu Plus, and more. And my favorite feature… Roku 3 has an enhanced remote with built-in headphone jack. So when you need to keep the volume down but still get your TV fix, just plug in the included in-ear headphones. Now your hubby can crank up that late-night action movie while the kids are asleep!
12. Sit Back and Relax Coupons - Your man deserves some spoiling on his birthday! And we’ve got these cute, free printable coupons to make it easy for you to do! Just print, cut, and staple to make a little “Sit Back & Relax” coupon book and treat him like a king for the day!
13. You are Appreciated - This envelope surprise is such a thoughtful way to show your hubby how amazing he is on his birthday. I just love how it gets his closest friends and family involved too. (And you’ve gotta love that it includes all the free printables you’ll need too! Printable letter, matching coupons and numbers, and everything! Run and check it out for all of the details.)
14. Personalized Secret Message Dress Shirt Collar Stays - Does your guy have to dress up every day for work? Why not send him off with a little love? Customized especially for your sweetheart with 6 different personalizations, flirty messages and/or names, this one-of-a-kind gift is sure to make his day!
15. 7 Days of Love - Instead of limiting the celebrations to a single day, why not celebrate the entire WEEK leading up to his birthday? Use a standard 7-day pill box, some of his favorite candies, and flirty love notes to make it the best birthday week EVER!
16. Personalized Ceramic Mug from York Photo - A personalized mug for your man is both practical AND sentimental. Fill it up with his favorite candies or treat for an added surprise!
17. Suite Retreat Kit - Surprise your man on his special day with a special night away! Yep, this little basket has everything you need for a night away with your honey at your own private suite for 2! And all of the free printables are just waiting for you to download! You could send the kiddos off to grandma’s for the night and turn your bedroom into your own private suite. OR actually whisk him away to your favorite hotel. Whatever the budget allows.
18. Man Bouquet - Who says bouquets are just for girls? We’re pretty sure any guy would love this fun “Man Bouquet” stuffed with his favorite candy bars, treats, and gift cards. I know mine would!
19. Cuisinart Frozen Yogurt-Ice Cream & Sorbet Maker - Now the birthday boy can make any kind of ice cream he wants to go with that birthday cake! The double insulated freezer bowl eliminates the need for ice, and the new mixing paddle makes frozen desserts in 20 minutes or less! And with a rainbow to chose from, you can pick his favorite color.
20. Passport to Love - If you really want to give your hubby the gift of LOVE, then this is the gift you’re looking for! This Passport to Love kit gives your honey his travel itinerary, airline tickets, passport, & passport stamps - so he can travel the world with you on 12 different dates. This gift is so simple and easy to put together - especially since it comes with free printables. It’s the perfect gift idea if you are low on money but high on love OR if you’ve been trying to get in the habit of having regular date night.
Don’t forget to check out our Birthday Gifts for Him in His 20s. And stop by tomorrow to see our Birthday Gifts for Him in His 40s!
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Why Dating Is Ultimately Better In Your 30s
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You may find yourself able to stand out in ways that were never an option in your 20s. You simply have more to work with.
The bad news is your 20s are over. The good news is that now you’re in your 30s. When it comes to mingling with members of the opposite sex, these two decades come with competing rulebooks. What worked for you then is probably not working for you now. In fact, what she used to see as your strengths have now become weaknesses. You need to turn your approach inside-out.
The Roaring 20s: Bonding Over Aimlessness
I had a great time in my early 20s. Not only did I somehow manage to date some really beautiful women, but I was blessed with a family that provided me with enough money to do so with a little style. I’m not ashamed to admit that it helped my game since I was still reeling from 10 years in an all-boys school and was trying to navigate my way through college. I wasn’t rocking the name brands just yet, but my jeans fit me well and I had a few shirts that looked good enough for me to walk into the right bars. School was the priority and work was part-time at best. Dating was simpler then, even though at the time I felt like the world was being altered around every decision I made.
Wrestling with limited responsibility while feeling overwhelmed is something that young men and women bond over and even form relationships upon. In my 20s, we sat around and wondered about the future, griped about the present and distracted ourselves along the way.
Twenty-something women had less subtly nuanced expectations for how a guy should present himself, and, as guys, we were free to be easygoing optimists. The emphasis was more on being unphased by the impending pressures and less on looking like you had a perfect road map.
In your 20s, cool could still mean “I don’t know, but I don’t care" — being untethered was the jackpot. Developing comfortable dialogue with women was all about being in the shared moment. There was something about that sense of discovery in life and mutual fear of the unknown that served as the best way to connect. Being in the moment was the ultimate way to make a girl notice you.
But when you're in your 30s, circumstances drastically change. They're only recognizable in that they’re the complete opposite of what used to work.
The Post-30 Standard: Driven Is The New Sexy
I’ve had two serious girlfriends and many less-serious girlfriends in between. I’m pretty much certain that, looking back, neither of the serious ones would date the guy that I was back then now that they’re in their 30s. In fact, I recall with stark clarity trying to impress an old girlfriend with a patented college move of buying a round of shots, only to be met with a look of slight disappointment that I was still up to my old tricks.
Somewhere after being a student ends and being a man begins, we shift our focus. Suddenly, the guy who is still figuring things out at 30 feels more awkward than sought after in dinner party conversation or casual bar banter.
If I am introduced to a woman at a party or at a bar through common friends, it takes only a couple of questions before we are discussing what we do for a living. Just like that, my long-term prospects are on the table — and make no mistake, my prospects play into my attractiveness. It’s not that women are looking for money, but at a certain point, security starts to look sexy.
The cards we play have changed, and the strongest hand at the table in this new game has nothing to do with bluffing. You need to have something to show. It’s not about money (although that certainly makes things a little easier), but rather, it’s about conveying you have momentum. You can be the financial hero of the biggest firm or an aspiring actor, but you need to make sure you’re sending out real passion or drive with some direction to boot. While in your 20s, you could sidle up next to a girl with little more than charisma to offer, your 30s require a little more of what was ultimately inconsequential back in the good ol’ days.
There's More To Life Than Acting Nonchalant
I know most of this boils down to confidence, and a lot of people will say, “Just go talk to women.” Ugh. Look. Not everyone is equipped to do that. And those who are already know most of this. The point is that confidence comes from knowing where you are and what you bring to the table, and owning it. In your 30s, you may find yourself able to stand out in ways that were never an option in your 20s. You simply have more to work with. And, if you have a good grasp of what your strengths are when you’re out there, that leads to looking comfortable in your skin. From where I am sitting, that’s just easier in your 30s.
How Meeting Women Changes In Your 30s
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I'm terrified that someday I'll run into my niece at a bar and she'll realize that cool Uncle Mike isn't so cool.
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I don’t want to f*ck. I want to date. I want a relationship. When I meet women and they realize this, I'm pretty sure it makes my life more difficult. Sometimes it even means I've blown a chance for a night of no-strings-attached sex. But I can’t help it. I’m in my 30s, and, when it comes to one-night stands. I've done it all. Now I want more. They can smell it on me. Talk about scaring away potential candidates.
I don’t want to be single when I'm 50. I'm terrified that someday I'll run into my niece at a bar and she'll realize that cool Uncle Mike isn't so cool. And she will introduce me to her friends with great embarrassment. And I will just wonder if they still think I’m cute or if I'm just that old guy. So meeting women these days carries a different incentive than it used to when I was slightly less puffy and had thicker hair. The question, when dating in your 30s. is whether you're willing to adapt.
The fact of the matter is you are locked in to stereotypes if you’re still cruising the single social scene after a certain age. Of course, this isn't a problem if you are just looking to get anyone back to your one-bedroom apartment for a night of slap and tickle. But we are here to talk about dating. I'm talking to the guys who want to get out of the rut of meaningless sexual conquests and step into a partnership that can lead to something more in their lives.
I've been out, meeting lots of women. I have met younger women and women my age. And I can confirm two things with absolute certainty. First, being honest about what you want from women is never a bad thing, even if that thing is a relationship. In most cases, when I have dropped that into a first meet over a cocktail, women find it endearing. They find it romantic. There is no downside if you play it sincerely. I’m not saying to be creepy and overly enthusiastic, but letting a girl know you are about more than one night is not uncool anymore. It’s mature. And mature is sexy. That brings me to the second thing.
For many guys, your 30s are the prime of your life. You can be confident about what you want, and you have the experience to back it up. Confidence means being proud of what you want, not underhanded. I once bought a round of shots for a group of girls celebrating a bachelorette party. Four girls. All drunk. All cute. All fun. The minute I came clean about being a guy looking for "that girl," the deafening sound of their “awwwws!” told me that there was some value in being straightforward. It wasn’t just what I was saying; it was that I was saying it with pride. I was owning that sh*t. And that is cool.
Meeting women is harder as you get older. And I'm not even speaking about the actual dating part — that’s a whole other minefield. When you first meet, you run the risk of being pigeonholed as either unable to commit or just unworthy of being committed to. But in those first moments, you can flip those single 30-something stereotypes on their head by just coming clean. I'm single because I have not met the right girl yet. I want to meet her. Maybe she's reading this; maybe she's not. But let’s find out.
Dating in Your 30s
Dating in your 30s might not sound like as much fun as it did in your 20s, but it certainly doesn’t have to be a chore. Having survived the immature sagas of youth, you’re ready to hit your stride, relationship-wise. Here’s a short guide to dating after your 30th birthday.
Dating in Your 30s: The Single Life
This is the decade in which to thrive. You’re likely to have a better perspective of dating than you did in your infatuated teen years. In your thirties, you’re cultivating friendships, passions, and a career. Dating is a part of life, but it isn’t everything.
Know what you want; not just from a relationship, but from life. You can’t control every circumstance surrounding “meeting the one,” but you can control how you spend your time. Live life to the fullest and pursue the kind of life you want to be living. Bonus: a happy, confident, fulfilled individual is an attractive one.
You’re 30, not dead. Have fun.
Dating in Your 30s: Get Out There
If you thought meeting people was tough in your 20s, you’re likely to find dating after 30 to be even trickier. The proverbial pool has shrunk, with more of your peers in long-term relationships or marriages, and with your social circle feeling smaller. (You probably don’t attend a weekly pub night with your sorority sisters anymore.)
With fewer fish to choose from — and likely a busier schedule that keeps you from leisurely bumping into Mrs. or Mr. Right — now is a good time to give online dating a shot. Matchmaking sites can let you be specific about who you’re looking for and what kind of relationship you’re seeking. Be intentional, then dive in.
Dating in Your 30s: The Ticking Clock
Throw out the timeline. Say goodbye to the rules, the formulas and the ticking clocks. It’s okay to desire marriage and a family, but you can’t go on a date accessorized with the desperate pressure to settle down.
More important than getting married or raising children is being with the right person. Don’t settle for Mr. Right Now, and don’t scare off a great gal with your impatience. Just because your friends are at a different life stage doesn’t mean that you’re running to catch up. Enjoy each moment as it comes.
Learn to communicate your values and dreams without bitterness or urgency. The right relationship is worth waiting for.
Dating in Your 30s: The Good Stuff
Dating in your 30s is dating at its best. With age comes wisdom; you’ve learned from past mistakes and now know what you need in a relationship and what you have to offer. You’re aware of your strengths and weaknesses, as will your date be aware of his/hers.
Unlike your earlier dating adventures, you’re finally stable financially (maybe), you’re ready for serious commitment, and you’ve discovered that singleness is nothing to be scared of. And by pursuing a relationship more intentionally and with more maturity, your odds of finding lasting love are actually higher.
Besides, in your 30s you have more stories to tell. If you’re a woman, you’re also now at your sexual peak. Your 20s were overrated.
Dating in Your 30s: The Challenges
Check your cynicism at the door. Just because you’ve survived heartache to get here doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust the next person to come around. Learn to give each new date a fair shot, not holding them accountable for the sins of those who’ve gone before.
Be open-minded. Date someone who isn’t your type, try an activity outside of your comfort zone, and challenge yourself to address the stuck-in-your-ways habits that could keep others at arm’s length.
Kids start complicating things in your 30s. Either you have them, want them, can’t have them, or don’t want them: all of these scenarios can result in awkward conversations. Be honest from the get-go. If you have kids, they need to be a huge consideration in your dating life. If you don’t yet have kids, evaluate whether or not the desire to eventually procreate is a deal-breaker. If your date hates children and you want six of them, the relationship has little long-term potential.
Dating in Your 30s — and Beyond!
Just as life didn’t end when you turned 30, it won’t end at 40 or 50 either. Single or with someone, life keeps getting better for those who embrace the adventure. Don’t let your relationship status limit your life, or your age limit your relationships.
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The Advantages You May Not Know About
With the advances in medical science and more attention being paid to overall health many people are discovering that the age of thirty just isn't what it used to be. Many people experience difficulty when reaching an age that will leave their twenties behind forever, but the cause for concern has become less and less as our society changes the perception of what the third decade of life means to most.
Improved Odds:
Many relationship statistics show that couples who find one another in their thirties often have an excellent chance of staying in a lasting relationship. This is perhaps because many people continue to feel young and healthy during this age, but have shed some of the inexperience of their youth.
A great many individuals begin dating by feeling nervous and uncertain of how they are supposed to act, or what they can expect from others. Dating and flirting tips may improve the confidence of any younger romance seeker, but nothing compares to experience.
One of the perks of age is that many of the troubles of youth dissolve away. Many people in their thirties become more confident about their lives in general and it is this confidence that can be so incredibly attractive to others.
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5 Reasons Dating Is Better In Your 30s Than 20s, According To Men
Any twenty-somethings who are despairing that they haven't found The One: take heart. Dating gets better with age -- according to the men of Reddit, anyway.
Male Redditors opened up about what it was like to be dating in their 30s vs. their 20s. While some commenters were frustrated at the dating scene -- citing a very small pool of prospects or a pattern of meeting women who "demanded" a serious commitment very early on -- the majority of posters reported that dating in their thirties was overall a much more pleasant experience. Here are five reasons why:
1. The sex is better. There are a lot of
" target="_hplink">different types of sex to be had in your twenties -- some of it more successful than others. But the commenters on this thread largely reported that, by their 30s, both they and their partners had figured out what worked for them sexually. Lost_Afropick said: "Sex is a whole lot better since you as a guy know what you're doing. So does she and crucially she isn't as shy about saying so and taking initiative."
2. True compatibility matters much more -- simply liking the same movies and being dog people isn't enough. InPursuitOf put it this way:
I care more about whether or not we have the same interests and goals in life. I'm looking for a partner in life nowadays, not just somebody to have sex with. For me personally, I want someone who takes risks, chases rewards, works extremely hard, learns something new every day, wants financial success, and doesn't want kids. In the past, all she needed to be was hot. My pool of available partners has shrunk considerably, but my happiness has increased.
3. Rules and games get thrown out the window (and everyone is better off for it.) Dating "rules" -- like how many times you should see someone before sleeping with them -- were always stupid, but according to these men, such behavior basically falls by the wayside the older you get. EBfarnum wrote: "People over 30 tend not to play as many games. By that point in life most people know better what they want and how to go about getting it."
4. Everyone is more independent, which makes it was easier to know if a relationship is right. Anyone single and dating in his or her thirties has spent much more time in the world as a functional adult than a twenty-something, which means more life experience and a clearer idea of one's goals and values. Nadrik posted that "Women in their 30s also tend to know what they want. They have their own interests, friends, hobbies, and aren't nearly as likely to just cling to you and rely on you for their own social life. It's incredibly refreshing."
5. Communication is stronger. Along with increased independence comes assertiveness -- and we all know you're more likely to get what you want when you actually ask for it. User sdtp wrote: "I've learned to just say what I want and attempt to grab it by the figurative balls."
What differences have you noticed between dating in your twenties versus your thirties? Comment below, or tweet @HuffPostWomen !
Why Dating Is Ultimately Better In Your 30s
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You may find yourself able to stand out in ways that were never an option in your 20s. You simply have more to work with.
The bad news is your 20s are over. The good news is that now you’re in your 30s. When it comes to mingling with members of the opposite sex, these two decades come with competing rulebooks. What worked for you then is probably not working for you now. In fact, what she used to see as your strengths have now become weaknesses. You need to turn your approach inside-out.
The Roaring 20s: Bonding Over Aimlessness
I had a great time in my early 20s. Not only did I somehow manage to date some really beautiful women, but I was blessed with a family that provided me with enough money to do so with a little style. I’m not ashamed to admit that it helped my game since I was still reeling from 10 years in an all-boys school and was trying to navigate my way through college. I wasn’t rocking the name brands just yet, but my jeans fit me well and I had a few shirts that looked good enough for me to walk into the right bars. School was the priority and work was part-time at best. Dating was simpler then, even though at the time I felt like the world was being altered around every decision I made.
Wrestling with limited responsibility while feeling overwhelmed is something that young men and women bond over and even form relationships upon. In my 20s, we sat around and wondered about the future, griped about the present and distracted ourselves along the way.
Twenty-something women had less subtly nuanced expectations for how a guy should present himself, and, as guys, we were free to be easygoing optimists. The emphasis was more on being unphased by the impending pressures and less on looking like you had a perfect road map.
In your 20s, cool could still mean “I don’t know, but I don’t care" — being untethered was the jackpot. Developing comfortable dialogue with women was all about being in the shared moment. There was something about that sense of discovery in life and mutual fear of the unknown that served as the best way to connect. Being in the moment was the ultimate way to make a girl notice you.
But when you're in your 30s, circumstances drastically change. They're only recognizable in that they’re the complete opposite of what used to work.
The Post-30 Standard: Driven Is The New Sexy
I’ve had two serious girlfriends and many less-serious girlfriends in between. I’m pretty much certain that, looking back, neither of the serious ones would date the guy that I was back then now that they’re in their 30s. In fact, I recall with stark clarity trying to impress an old girlfriend with a patented college move of buying a round of shots, only to be met with a look of slight disappointment that I was still up to my old tricks.
Somewhere after being a student ends and being a man begins, we shift our focus. Suddenly, the guy who is still figuring things out at 30 feels more awkward than sought after in dinner party conversation or casual bar banter.
If I am introduced to a woman at a party or at a bar through common friends, it takes only a couple of questions before we are discussing what we do for a living. Just like that, my long-term prospects are on the table — and make no mistake, my prospects play into my attractiveness. It’s not that women are looking for money, but at a certain point, security starts to look sexy.
The cards we play have changed, and the strongest hand at the table in this new game has nothing to do with bluffing. You need to have something to show. It’s not about money (although that certainly makes things a little easier), but rather, it’s about conveying you have momentum. You can be the financial hero of the biggest firm or an aspiring actor, but you need to make sure you’re sending out real passion or drive with some direction to boot. While in your 20s, you could sidle up next to a girl with little more than charisma to offer, your 30s require a little more of what was ultimately inconsequential back in the good ol’ days.
There's More To Life Than Acting Nonchalant
I know most of this boils down to confidence, and a lot of people will say, “Just go talk to women.” Ugh. Look. Not everyone is equipped to do that. And those who are already know most of this. The point is that confidence comes from knowing where you are and what you bring to the table, and owning it. In your 30s, you may find yourself able to stand out in ways that were never an option in your 20s. You simply have more to work with. And, if you have a good grasp of what your strengths are when you’re out there, that leads to looking comfortable in your skin. From where I am sitting, that’s just easier in your 30s.
A Guide To Dating In Your 30s
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So you've made it to your 30s. Congratulations. Now you're ready for the big leagues. Your rookie days in the triple-A dating scene are over. You can now man up to the new playing field of love. No more wasting time on dead-end women. You know (and she'll know) exactly what you want out of a relationship. Will she be "Ms. Right" or simply "Ms. Right Now"? You decide, because now you can, with confidence.
You know what you want in love, the only question is, what type of woman are you looking for? Only you know the answer. Just remember; there's a different woman for every relationship scenario.
So, without further ado, read up on what you can do to increase your chances of meeting the one you want. and avoiding the ones you don't.
